It is said that a friend or a friend of the important companion in the life of man. Friends are for a quote "God's apology for the family." Is already not far wrong. The family can not even pick one now .. you are born into it. His friends, however, you can choose. You get to know in kindergarten, at school, at college, on third, at events .. indeed anywhere where you get to know people how it is.
real friends are always there for you. You have fun with them, they share some moments with them .. even the sad ones. Man fights with them and sometimes tolerate it again with them.
The friends see how we suffer, how to live, they are happy with for one, if there is to enjoy something. You will see the partners come and go. You play the helpline if you were to leave fresh. They make a re-fresh courage when everything seems to go down to the river .. but also have a private life, with their own problems and difficulties. Then you should already take into consideration before you get upset about that friend of XY will be no time for phone calls. Now the Circle is so often not only from a second person. Usually the person has 7.2 real friends. A good number I would say .. but considering that this is only an average number. Some have more .. some less ..
When his friends now on .. hm .. tell us to fix eight true friends ... accepted only once .. how great is the probability that one will in a difficult situation sometimes left alone? They say 0%? ... In theory makes sense even if one assumes, of course, now assume that the problems lie outside the circle of friends, that is pure theory I have in this so-called difficult moment, the selection of eight loyal friends who stand by me .. THEORY!
But now let's say, every one of these friends lives in a place other than yourself, the accessibility is reduced to a dramatic minimum I would say. Each of the eight subjects to fulfill their own duties .. What do I do then, if no one reports more with me? Somehow, I sometimes have the strange feeling that I was the only one to report regularly to their friends. For as the saying goes: "Out of sight, out of mind". But when I return to my 18th Birthday think I remember a sentence of one of my best friends "have been even after the ABI is not our last joint birthday celebration"
. a very hopeful record, if I see the facts that we are all scattered somewhere in Germany.
And yet I have no problem getting into my ICQ or to type a message on Facebook . And if it's a short "Hi how are you" SMS to be. But to register at all? Quite honestly, the last one!
It makes me very sad that somehow never comes back. May well be that one has sometimes to do much .. But in a text message or a short phone call is always time .. should one tell me what you want. I can not believe that I am trying again and again. I thought with the naive attitude, I'm only with my Mom next to it .. but that even MC BAG and Co. to be ignorant bunch, I never thought possible: (...
Empty promises, short-tailed mails or entire concealment where .. Please remain your trust in me .. and above all .... and where the hell the
is love with understanding ?????
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